Pregnancy edition: 10 things to consider when getting dressed.
And relevant for those who aren't pregnant too!
I want to preface this by saying I understand how lucky I am to be pregnant, and pregnant for a second time but I really don’t enjoy being pregnant. Aside from the aches, pains, constant worry, varicose veins and vomiting, I find all the body changes to be challenging. Pregnancy is a means to an end and it is that end, that beautiful cherub I have grown in this swollen, veiny body of mine that helps me to just get on with it. I have not dwelled, I have still shopped and I have learnt how to stay true to my personal style, of course with some slight adjustments.
Here are my top ten tips for getting dressed while pregnant –
Tights are not just for exercise and in my books are a totally acceptable choice of pant, especially during the last trimester. To elevate your everyday Align’s pair with items and textures that are not considered activewear – instead of a sneaker go for a ballet flat, a long shirt that covers your bump (and bottom) will become a staple, swap a sweatshirt for knitwear and just add a long coat (wool for winter or trench from spring/summer) for days you really do not want to think.
If you have a holy grail item you wear every week, for me it’s the trousers that I’m wearing in all of these shots, then buy the size up (or two) and in another colour, too. This will allow space for the bump to grow and also be your saving grace in postpartum dressing. If down the line, you go back to your regular size, either have the item tailored or resell.
Yes I’m still banging on about TOM. There are so many body changes during pregnancy, so consider this a reminder to be kind to yourself and to be prepared. Think about the not-so-pretty but completely necessary underneath layers. I always wear comfortable, seamless underwear and never leave home without my light bladder protection liners from TOM (even the wrapper fits my personal style!). I find these liners to be comfortable, undetectable and I don’t have to panic about any light leaks when I can’t waddle to the bathroom fast enough.
Accessories and jewellery are a way to add personality to any outfit. I never feel quite like “me” unless I have a pair of earrings on. They instantly transform any look, even if I am just wearing activewear. Add a key piece like a textured bag, jewellery, sunglasses, hat, Mui Mui (or Mui Mui inspired) paracord charm, or a coloured knit draped over your shoulders – or sometimes all of the above works in unison. Whatever feels most like “you” and that you can easily add no matter what trimester you are in.
This is probably my most controversial tip but if you are a jeans girlie and buying the size up isn’t cutting it, buy the maternity jeans. No not any maternity jeans, buy a pair from ilouity. After extensive research and months spent longing for my denim companions, I found that this pair, which is loved by
, , along with thousands of chic mums-to-be globally. All I can say is that they are insanely comfortable (a must!) and look like regular jeans. My biggest regret is that I did not try them sooner.A tonal or monochromatic base is the simplest way to get dressed. All black, all-white, a neutral knit dress, start with what you enjoy wearing then add layers and jewellery according to the occasion.
Try a trend, fashion is suppose to be fun and you’re not going to always get it right, I certainly don’t. Rhianna single handedly changed maternity style forever and no longer are we confined to Homer Simpson-style moo moos. So, while I did dip my top into baring a small portion of my bump, I realised it’s not for me. But if baring some skin makes you feel confident and sexy, I say go for it!
Pairing an oversized piece with a more fitted item gives balance. For example an oversized blazer and or shirt with a stirrup tights(these are down to $45!) adds shape as does a thin belt above your belly. If you are on the short-ish side like me then this tip in particular will come handy.
Don’t be surprised if you like different styles on yourself. Stretchy and fitted is often a great choice, even if a non-pregnant you would rather die than wear anything that clings to you. Plus, you can usually take your regular size or one size up which means this is an investment into your wardrobe for now and the future.
Out of sight, out of mind. Buy what suits your pregnant body, shop your own wardrobe first and pack away any items that don’t fit. I have found this so important for my mental health. Pregnancy is a moment, our bodies will not be sore, swollen and leaky for eternity.
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