I’m glad I was able to capture what you and so many others are feeling. A large part of it was sharing the words of Megan and Erin who dared to be honest rather than just aspirational.
So much honesty in this one. This hit me hard: "I am envious that he gets to dedicate his time to his work and that I can devote only the scraps to mine." I feel this on so many levels, and yet, I have no solution on how it would work any other way. Appreciate you exploring such a complex question that us mothers are facing day-to-day.
Thank you - and I think just sharing honest words from women and mothers who say how darn hard it is, what the personal costs are involved helps to deglorify (not sure if that is a word?) the juggle and hustle involved in starting business.
I've stumbled on your Instagram and newsletter, so glad I did. This has got to be the most relatable piece of writing I've read as a mother. I say that with sincerity. I wish being a stay at home mum fulfilled me, I wish I didn't feel resentful to my husband whose time is guarded like diamonds, I often wish I didn't follow my self employed dreams. One thing I've managed is the management of guilt, I rarely feel it and when I do, I question in. Glad to have discovered your writing. Wilma
Thank you so much for your kind words Wilma. There is so much 'unlearning' and learning to be done when becoming a mother. Feelings of discomfort are always going to be lingering. It's the art of how to move on from it to enjoy the moment that you are in – for both working or caring.
I feel so much of this. Motherhood encapsulates such a rich dichotomy for all womankind. Such love for what is gained, such frustration for what is lost. Such dedication to them, such abandonment to self.
I think with your first child, you just don't know how much it takes over everything – the years are swallowed up, not wasted but a lot is figuring it out and if you have challenges with sleep especially then there is little time or energy for much else.
This is such an excellent piece of writing.
Too kind. Thank you Emma!
Oooft. Ctrl+Alt+delete 💔
Appreciate every word.
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Thanks Ellie!
Perfectly said, all of it.
Glad you thought so.
What excellent writing that captured everything I’m feeling. You’ve made me feel so seen and validated in my constant struggle.
I’m glad I was able to capture what you and so many others are feeling. A large part of it was sharing the words of Megan and Erin who dared to be honest rather than just aspirational.
This is such a great article and exactly what I needed to read and hear this week. Love your work Jade 😘
So glad I could articulate what a lot of women are feeling/could share the wisdom from those who have been through it.
Speaking to my soul on this one Jade. 💛
I thought this may resonate with you!
Jade, this is beyond refreshing and moving to read, I devoured every last word.
Thanks Liv. I was quite proud of this one - made time to really research, think, and chat to others.
So much honesty in this one. This hit me hard: "I am envious that he gets to dedicate his time to his work and that I can devote only the scraps to mine." I feel this on so many levels, and yet, I have no solution on how it would work any other way. Appreciate you exploring such a complex question that us mothers are facing day-to-day.
Thank you - and I think just sharing honest words from women and mothers who say how darn hard it is, what the personal costs are involved helps to deglorify (not sure if that is a word?) the juggle and hustle involved in starting business.
I've stumbled on your Instagram and newsletter, so glad I did. This has got to be the most relatable piece of writing I've read as a mother. I say that with sincerity. I wish being a stay at home mum fulfilled me, I wish I didn't feel resentful to my husband whose time is guarded like diamonds, I often wish I didn't follow my self employed dreams. One thing I've managed is the management of guilt, I rarely feel it and when I do, I question in. Glad to have discovered your writing. Wilma
Thank you so much for your kind words Wilma. There is so much 'unlearning' and learning to be done when becoming a mother. Feelings of discomfort are always going to be lingering. It's the art of how to move on from it to enjoy the moment that you are in – for both working or caring.
I feel so much of this. Motherhood encapsulates such a rich dichotomy for all womankind. Such love for what is gained, such frustration for what is lost. Such dedication to them, such abandonment to self.
I think with your first child, you just don't know how much it takes over everything – the years are swallowed up, not wasted but a lot is figuring it out and if you have challenges with sleep especially then there is little time or energy for much else.
Yes yes yes, thank you for putting into words such a visceral and common feeling.
It took many years to put these words together. I’m glad they resonate with so many X